Even as a baby you have your way of communicating with the people around you. Loud unceasing cries can tell your parents that you are hungry or you are wet and needs diaper change. The next stage is when babies use body language to get what they want like waving a cup can indicate that they are thirsty and need a drink. When they get older, around age two, speech has taken over and they can now express what they want. They might start with baby talks but later on when they get older they start to speak the dialect straight.
Unfortunately there are people that suffers from too much shyness that there communications skills suffers. Mostly they just stay in one corner and doesn't even open their mouth to speak unless they are ask to and worst, other refuse to reply because they are afraid that they might say the wrong words. They are just too scared to speak out and aired their opinions.
If this continues to adulthood, then the struggle of getting into a good job and having good relationship with the opposite sex is a big problem. But changing the situation is not that late yet. You can still do something to change this chronic inability of yours. Check this self help to communicate techniques which can help you transform your life.
Improve self confidence: The most important thing for you to deal with this communication problem is to improve your self confidence and believe in yourself. You are free to air your opinions and there is no right or wrong with it. When you want to say something, then write it down first and practice saying it in front of a mirror and then with family and friends. That way it helps you develop your self-confidence till you can now really stand in front of a crowd or just a small group. You can join in forum and chats online; it is a good place to start improving your communication.
Develop genuine interest with others: When you develop genuine interest with others then you will understand them much better and thus you can communicate better with them. Knowing other people, their issues in life will make you understand them and will help you to talk to them in a way that they will not be offended but in a way where they appreciate it.
Help others to overcome communication problems too: Since you have undergone the same problem, you are of better position to help others who experience the same problem that you have. Aside from helping them, you are helping yourself too by continually developing your communication skills as you help others. Introduce to them the self help to communication techniques and they will surely develop their own skills of communication.
These are just a few of the self help to communicate techniques. You can find more tips to develop your communication skills. Developing such skill doesn't happen overnight but constant practice every day will enhance your communication skill. So don't get desperate or frustrated by your inability to speak out, it's not yet too late. Get help with these tips and develop your communication skills.
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Roberto Sedycias works as IT consultant for Polomercantil